5 different people you will encounter in school and ways to deal
Everyone come from different backgrounds with different feelings and different perceptions about life. No matter how handsome or ugly you are, if you are trying to avoid them, they will come to you. What matter most is the way you respond to them.
Here are different personalities you will encounter and the ways you can deal with them.
Seduction is in different forms. As a beautiful lady, you will definitely meet the “crushers” or “toasters”. These types of people will want you to be their “lover” or “girlfriend”. They will try to be perfect in actions because of you. Buying you sophisticated gift in the name of love.
As a handsome boy, they will urge you to buy something for them. They will wear charming seductive dresses and persuade you to have immoral relationship with them.
As a student, ”the king and queen of the forest” may invite you to attend their meeting outside the school. They called themselves “aye” or “black beret”
How to deal with them
Sit those “crushers” and “toasters” down and tell them the consequences of immoral and premarital relationship. And assure them you can be a good friend.
Run and avoid ”the king and queen of the forest” and never move near them. Tell them you don’t have interest in joining them.
There are some people that behave violently. They upset and trouble their colleagues. They don’t care about the effect of their action on their mates. They may decide to mock and embarrass you in the public. They look at you as someone who is nothing. When you decide to talk to them, they excuse you to leave them.
Dealing with them requires patience. You must not engage in a fight with them and be not ignorant of their actions. When they look at you angrily, laugh at them and move off from their sight. When they want to start a fight, stay cool and avoid their presence.
These are people that are` called “the know all”. They claim to know everything that is trending. They tell you sophisticated stories about their lives. They act as if they are the son of Bill Gates. When they perceive their colleagues got higher marks than they do in a test, they become jealous.
Dealing with this kind of people requires you not to talk when they are speaking their hyperbole. Just be smiling and keep nodding your head and if you mind, why not go out and get refreshed.
These are people that desert you when you are faced with challenges. You don’t know the pretenders until you are faced with challenges. When things are going smooth, they will be available. When problem now occurs, they run away.
Don’t trust pretender, they may hurt you badly; tell them “a friend in need is a friend indeed”.
These are types of people that are pure in their heart. They don’t make trouble, they are gentle and friendly. They help people who are in need. They are truthful and transparent. They remain faithful to their religion (Christianity or Islam).
Respect these people. you will definitely gain one or two things from them. When they want to be friend with you, embrace them.